Hot Tips on Dirty Talk in Bed

Talking dirty in bed happens to be one of the most effective ways to turn an ordinary sexual experience - dull, boring or monotonous - into a lively, kinky and wholesome experience. Contrary to what you may believe, it is not that hard to start and perfect dirty talk during sex. It is easy to say some very embarrassing things - a slew of offensive, weird things flowing from your mouth such as 'I want you to bay like a donkey' - something that will not go well with your partner, if you do not know what to do, what to say or how to respond to dirty talking during sex. I have a few tips to help guide you in the right direction:

a) There is a big difference between talking dirty and plain offensive swearing. You may use the same words, the allure may be same but it is all about the attitude and intent. You have to ease your partner into it and you have to know when to open your mouth or when to keep it busy on something else.

b) Most women have no problem with the ooooh's and aaaah's during sex, it kind of just comes naturally. For most girls, bringing the filthy, dirty words into the bedroom may seem a little too naughty but it can be exhilarating if done right. I remember the first time I told my boyfriend, "Now I want you to fuck me hard". He was a little surprised but it brought out more filthy dirty talk out of him and my heartbeat raced just out of excitement.

c) You never really know what is in store for you until you try something new. It is uncommon for people to talk dirty on their first sexual act because it only comes when the partners are completely at ease with each other and are confident enough. You must also ease into it slowly, start with moaning and groaning or just talk about it and agree to make an experience 'dirty'.

d) Dirty talking does not comprise of only four letter words. One of the best thing about dirty sex is that it is nasty but delicious and the words mostly used are sexual commands that your partner will respond to. There is a myriad of phrases and words including 'lick', 'bite', 'screw', 'spank', 'daddy', 'bitch', 'squeeze' and others that may sound innocent in other contexts but have a whole new meaning in bed.